August 11, 2016 at 9:58 pm (family, flowers, food, thanks)
Tags: family, food, thanks
What a joy it has been to focus on thankfulness as the summer continues on! With just two days left in my “Thirty Day” journey, I’ll make certain to highlight a few that are particularly timely.
Today’s Five Thankful Things:
- First Day tradition – Since our daughters were in preschool, we have taken a “first day of school” photo each year. And our lovely girls agree to hold up a sign and smile each year, with the promise that we will not follow them to college with these signs.
- Caring, intelligent teachers – Our daughters have attended public school since kindergarten, and we have been blessed each year with special teachers who really do care about their students. At a time when public schools face budget and political struggles, I have so appreciated Eastbrook Schools and the caring faculty and at its heart.
- Berries still! – Our blackberry bushes continue to be fruitful, and I try to enjoy them when I have the chance. Looks like we’ll be making at least one more batch of jam! And we have several quarts frozen. Fresh berries just can’t be beat!
- Fresh veggies from the garden! – Today’s lunch at home came from our garden, picked over the past couple days. Other than the large okra (should have been picked before it grew too large), I enjoyed sweet peppers, smaller okra, cucumber, and tomatoes. Then berries. Oh – and watermelon from our garden!
- Rose of Sharon’s first blooms – A few months ago, we planted a few saplings of “Rose of Sharon,” shared by my friend Ellen. Her bush is a combination of white, lavender, and pink blooms, as the bushes grew tightly into each other. But these were just planted here in April, and I hadn’t even expected them to bloom on this first year. What a beautiful surprise to find out this morning that these were both blooming!
July 27, 2016 at 10:49 pm (family, food, friends, games, thanks)
Tags: family, thanks
Summer break is a time for fun mini-adventures, often within the walls of our house. “Fun” for us may not be what would excite others, but isn’t that part of what makes summer break especially lovely? The chance to pause and enjoy unique blessings – I’ll share a few of those below.
Today’s 5 Thankful Things:
- New recipes to try – When I saw “French toast waffles” in a recipe email, I decided to give it a try. And family members made it work – this was fun!
- Twinkletoes – or at least painted toenails. Though she has lovely blue-painted nails herself, my kind daughter painted my toenails a beautiful burgundy.
- Blog adventures with our girls – On her own blog, twin number one examined the inner struggle she faces while finishing an assignment due at the start of school. She has this final paper almost completed, and the last part of it finds her dragging her heels. (It IS vacation, and I wonder how many AP students will have this assignment finished. This girl will, I know. But that doesn’t mean she has to like it.)
- Blog adventure number two – The second sister has been continuing to post on her art blog daily. You may recall that she started the blog in early July – how fun to see the growth that has been taking place!
- More game adventures – My husband and his friends have been playing a “legacy” game over the past few months, a game where things change and cards are even torn up as they go. It is so fun to hear these four friends laughing and groaning and cheering and lamenting… proof that games aren’t just for kids. Or that “kids” are defined by more than age.
July 21, 2016 at 10:30 pm (family, flowers, food, friends, thanks)
Today’s 5 Thankful things:
- Skype – How lovely to chat with our friends, Dave and Heidi! I still feel like I’m living in the world of “The Jetsons” when I talk at a screen, then see and hear a response. Amazing – and even more wonderful is the chance to spend an hour sharing with friends, being able to look into their eyes as we share about our lives.
- Sharing veggies with friends – and spending the morning with our lovely friend Armila, who picked some berries then helped Em and Rach pull some stubborn weeds. (Thank you, Armila, for the weeding assistance!) I also appreciate how we all agreed that “weeds” with pretty flowers are only pulled if it’s to place them in a vase. (That is where my little white daisies keep coming from.)
- Music stores – the kind that sell instruments, not albums. We visited a Fort Wayne music store that we’d seen the name of but hadn’t visited… and a seventeen-year-old was able to test play different saxes to consider the
purchase of a new one really soon. Neat trip!
- Missing the rain – I love it when rain is just starting as we walk into a store, we hear it pounding above while we’re inside, and it stops as we exit an hour later. And our formerly dusty vehicle now looks sparkly clean!
- Fruit cobbler – Baked on Wednesday, T.R.’s large dish of blackberry cobbler left goodness that can still be shared over the next couple of days. Yum!
fresh, warm cobbler with frozen yogurt
July 17, 2016 at 6:43 pm (disability, family, food, thanks)
Tags: #TDoT, disability, family, thanks
I wrote this on Friday the 15th, but due to craziness of luggage, laundry, and anniversary celebration, it wasn’t posted. Here it is, a tiny bit before Day 17.
Today’s 5 Thankful things – Returning home
- Fresh streusel – http://www.harbertswedishbakery.com/ Starting our final lake morning with fresh streusel from the nearby Swedish bakery was indeed lovely. (Thank you, T.R., for the bakery trip yesterday!)
- Sweet hugs from young nieces – It was nice to see our young nieces, ages 9 and 11, for an entire week. They may be similar, but they are as different as our own two daughters (more, of course, since they’re two years apart rather than thirteen minutes.) It reminded me of our girls’ elementary years, while also helping me appreciate how far Em and Rach have come.
- Ahhh, home – How nice it was to step into our own house. Aaaahhhh.
- Sleeping in our own bed – Our own mattress, sheets, pillows… so we can be home for our anniversary. Nice.
- A home without stairs – I don’t fully appreciate the way we designed our own home until I spend time at a place with plenty of steps. Our stairway-free house is appreciated even more at times like this!
July 16, 2016 at 10:53 pm (disability, family, food, MS, thanks)
Tags: anniversary, Knight in faded denim, MS, thanks
Today’s 5 Thankful things – A few of the many reasons I’m thankful for my dear husband:
T.R. and Angie on “Lovers’ Lane” in 2008 at Green Gables
Today is our second palindromic anniversary – And we’re both geeky enough to know and care what this means. These twenty-two years have been far from perfect, but I’m so glad we’ve enjoyed them together!
- T.R. is such a wonderful father to our two girls – From reading or playing catch with little ones to driving them to their junior prom, he has been there for them – a much-loved Daddy indeed!
He finds ways to help me, even when it’s uncomfortable or highly inconvenient – T.R. and I have joined forces in helping define reasonable “accessibility” issues. He’ll help me find solutions to problems I knew were there, but hadn’t pinpointed.
- We have grown together in ways we would never have predicted – As my own roles and abilities have been redefined, he has also found ways to rework his own path to help take up the slack caused by my MS limitations. Along the way, he has further developed his skills with gardening and cooking, two things it pains me to leave behind. But I can still do a bit with this, even if vicariously.
- My “Knight in faded denim” is more dashing than he was in 1994 – and he was a handsome fellow then!
our anniversary trip two years ago
I have so much more to write, but I’ll add specifics over the coming days. I just had to say before the end of today – Happy Anniversary, T.R. – I love you!
July 13, 2016 at 10:49 pm (family, food, games, thanks)
Tags: family, thanks
Today’s 5 Thankful things – ice cream, family, and memories:
- Fun ice cream shop – Oink’s Dairy Delight offers a fun trip for our family each summer – wonderful dips of hard ice cream in more flavors than Ivanhoe’s has in its case. And fun decorations, even in the parking spots!
- Thoughtful little meal choices – When somebody like me has annoying allergies (like jalapeño peppers and black pepper), it is so appreciated when those preparing meals find ways to kindly, not ostentatiously, make necessary alterations. Thank you, Phoenix and Laura!
- Cousin love – It is such a beautiful thing when cousins who haven’t seen one another for months (about a year, really) get to see one another, even if only for a few hours. Love you, Carolyn and Pam! It is especially enjoyable to trip through past memories, and to give our own children a chance to touch base with their second cousins.
- The quietest “party game” ever – “Codenames” is great fun, and our family, ages 9-73, really enjoyed playing this game several times. The game has won several awards, and I see why!
- The family puzzle – We brought a “3-D Castle” puzzle with us to the lake this year, and at least six different family members worked together to complete this. With my uncooperative vision, puzzles tend to be an exercise in frustration for me, but I really enjoy viewing completed masterpieces!